Dormant Relationships: The Most Underused Growth Asset in Your Business
Your most underused growth asset may be the customers who stopped hearing from you. Why dormant relationships deserve a CEO's attention.
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(Part 5/5 of the What is Outgrow Series)
If you’ve ever sat through a sales workshop, learned some new ideas, and then gone right back to your old habits, you already know the dirty little secret:
Knowing doesn’t create growth.
Doing does.
Outgrow exists to bridge that gap, not by overwhelming teams with new theories, but by embedding simple, daily actions that change how companies grow.
The four cornerstone behaviors — Proactive Calls, DYKs, rDYKs, and Pivots — drive everything.
Here’s a brief introduction to each one, drawn directly from Outgrow by Alex Goldfayn, with an open invitation for you to experience the real magic by reading the book or reaching out to learn more.
Proactive Calls are at the heart of the Outgrow system.
They are brief, relationship-building outreach to customers and prospects, made when nothing is wrong.
These calls typically follow a three-part, three-minute structure:
Proactive Calls aren’t pushy.
They’re human, professional, and confidence-building — both for the salesperson and the customer.
DYKs (“Did You Know” questions) are simple ways to inform and educate customers about additional products, services, or solutions they might not be aware you offer.
Examples:
According to Outgrow’s 20+ years of tracking:
The goal?
Maximize your team’s use of DYKs, because each one is a simple swing at growing customer value.
rDYKs (“Reverse Did You Know” questions) flip the focus.
Instead of telling customers something new, you ask what they need that you’re not currently providing.
Examples:
rDYKs help uncover hidden opportunities.
They show customers that you care enough to ask, not just to sell.
Pivots are natural invitations to move forward, either toward a sale or toward the next conversation.
Examples:
Pivots eliminate lingering, awkward “maybes” and make it easy for customers to say yes…to the next product, the next call, or the next meeting.
The brilliance of Outgrow is not that it introduces brand-new sales tactics.
It’s that it systematizes basic human behavior at scale:
As Alex Goldfayn often emphasizes:
“Sales is not about what you know. It’s about what you do.”
Outgrow companies don’t just think differently, they act differently every single day.
If you’re serious about moving from sales reading to sales doing, here’s your next step:
Because when you do Outgrow – not just learn it – growth is inevitable.
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